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The Importance of Self-Care for Counsellors - By Errolie Sermaine

Errolie Sermaine - 4th August 2023

Counselling is a profession that requires emotional, psychological, and physical stamina. You’re responsible for providing support, empathy, and guidance to individuals who are going through difficult times, and it can be very easy to get caught up in the needs of your clients and forget about your own. Self-care is essential for counsellors to maintain their mental health and wellbeing. Counselling is an incredibly rewarding job, but it can also be emotionally draining, and without self-care, counsellors are at risk of experiencing burnout. In this article, we’ll explore the significance of self-care for counsellors and the benefits it can have on their mental health and wellbeing.


What is Self-Care and Why is it Important for Counsellors?

Self-care is the practice of taking care of your physical, emotional, and mental wellbeing. It’s about taking the time to engage in activities that nourish your mind, body, and soul. Self-care can take many forms, including exercise, mindfulness, meditation, spending time with loved ones, or simply taking a break from work. Counselling can be a very demanding job that requires empathy and relational depth. As a result, counsellors can be exposed to secondary traumatic stress, which can lead to emotional exhaustion, compassion fatigue, and burnout. Counsellors who do not engage in self-care are at risk of experiencing these potentially damaging outcomes, which can have a significant impact on their mental health and wellbeing.


What are the Benefits of Self-Care for Counsellors?

Prevents Burnout: Burnout is a state of emotional, physical, and mental exhaustion caused by prolonged and excessive stress. Counsellors who are experiencing burnout can become detached, cynical, and experience a lack of motivation. Burnout can also lead to physical symptoms, such as headaches, stomach issues, and insomnia. By prioritizing self-care, counsellors can reduce the risk of burnout and ensure that they are able to provide the best care possible to their clients.

Reduces Stress and Anxiety: Counselling can be a stressful job, and it’s essential to have coping strategies in place to manage this stress. Regular exercise, mindfulness, and meditation are all effective ways to reduce stress and anxiety. Exercise releases endorphins, which can improve mood and reduce stress. Mindfulness and meditation can help counsellors stay present and focused, reducing the impact of stress and anxiety.

Improves Work-Life Balance: As a counsellor, it can be challenging to separate your work life from your personal life. However, self-care can help you create boundaries and ensure that you have time for yourself outside of work. This can lead to increased job satisfaction and a better overall quality of life.

Enhances Relationships with Clients: When you take care of yourself, you are better able to connect with your clients and provide them with the support they need. It can also help you model healthy behaviours and coping strategies, which can be beneficial for your clients.


Tried and Tested Self-Care Strategies for Counsellors:

Take Breaks Throughout the Day: Counsellors should take breaks throughout the day to rest, recharge, and refocus. This can include taking a short walk, practicing deep breathing exercises, or simply stepping away from the computer.

Prioritize Sleep: Sleep is essential for mental and physical wellbeing. Counsellors should prioritize getting 7-8 hours of sleep each night to ensure that they are well-rested and ready to provide support to their clients.

Engage in Regular Exercise: Regular exercise is an effective way to reduce stress and anxiety. Counsellors should aim to engage in 30 minutes of moderate-intensity exercise, such as walking, jogging, or swimming, at least 3-4 times per week.

Practice Mindfulness and Meditation: Mindfulness and meditation can help counsellors stay present and focused, reducing the impact of stress and anxiety. There are many mindfulness and meditation techniques available, including guided meditations, body scans, and breathing exercises. Counsellors can find what works best for them and incorporate these practices into their daily routine.

Seek Support: It’s essential for counsellors to have a support system in place. This can include colleagues, friends, family, supervision and a therapist. Counsellors should feel comfortable reaching out for support when they need it and not feel ashamed or embarrassed about doing so.

Set Boundaries: Counsellors should set clear boundaries between their work life and personal life. This can include scheduling time for self-care activities, such as exercise or meditation, and ensuring that they have time for themselves outside of work.

Practice Self-Compassion: Counsellors are often compassionate towards their clients, but it’s important to extend this compassion to themselves as well. Counsellors should practice self-compassion by treating themselves with kindness, recognizing their own limitations, and not being too hard on themselves when they make mistakes.



In conclusion, self-care is essential for counsellors to maintain their mental health and wellbeing. Counsellors who prioritize self-care can reduce the risk of burnout, improve their work-life balance, and enhance their relationships with clients. By incorporating self-care strategies into their daily routine, counsellors can ensure that they are providing the best care possible to their clients.

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Author Biography:

Errolie Sermaine is a BACP and NCS Accredited Counsellor and Clinical Supervisor. Since qualifying she has run a successful private practice and worked for a variety of organisations. She is also a fully qualified teacher and trainer with a wealth of experience of designing and delivering a huge a range of courses. Passionate about training counsellors, she has been the Clinical Supervisor for several Professional Diploma in Therapeutic Counselling courses, as well as the Designated Safeguarding Lead and Curriculum Manager for an Outstanding adult education provider.
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